"...SPARSH..."

SPARSH !!!!!
rote hue ko hasa deta hai SPARSH !!!!!
tension me baithe aadmi ka tension kam ker deta hai SPARSH !!!!!
kisi ko nind na aa rahi ho ...use sula deta hai SPARSH !!!!!
koi purani baat yaad dila deta hai SPARSH !!!!!
man ki kadvahat ko mita deta hai SPARSH !!!!!

yu to hum sabhi log...apni feelings share kerne ke liye...
bolte hai ....likhte hai ...kuch kaam kerke show kerte hai...
in sabse alava ek aur chij ka use kerte hai ....vo hai SPARSH !!!!!

apni maa ko hi le lijiye.....
ye kahne ki to bilkul jarurat hi nahi ki koi maa apne baccho se kitna pyar kerti hai....maa ke har chote-se-chote ...ya bade-se-bade kaam ho....chaahe maa chup rahe ya baato dwara kitna bhi prem jataye.....baccho ke liye uska pyar hamesha atulniya rahta hai....
fir bhi jab kabhi hum ma ke gale lagte hai.....to hum saare gum bhool jate hai...
ma dwara sir pe hath rakhte se hi...humme confidence aa jata hai....
maa ki god me sote se hi saara darr gayab ho jata hai.....ye hai SPARSH !!!!!


generally koi beta ya especially beti apne pitaji ke pyar ko bahut kam samjh pati hai....ya samjh bhi jati hai....to generally mahsus kam hi kar pati hai....
but
jis din ladki ki vidaai hoti hai.....us din pitaji se gale milte samay vo definitly jaan leti hai.....ki uske pitaji usse behadd pyar kerte hai....
pyar bhari ..unkahi feelings ko.... bina kahe .....jatane ka naam hai SPARSH !!!!!


apni daily life me hamare dosto ke sath hum kaafi samay gujarte hai.....
kaafi masti kerte hai....
kisi tyohaar ya birthday pe kisi friend ko gale lagaker feelings share karte se hi ... vo aapki zindgi ka ek abhinn hissa ban jata hai ......
shabdo ka apna mahtv hai.....lekin SPARSH !!!!! ka alag mahtv hai .....
( jaruri nahi dosto se gale milkr hi ....but yahi kaam hum unki pith pe mukke marke ....birthday pe laat marke bhi kr sakte hai..... aur karte hi hai )
ya unse garmjoshi se hath milake bhi kr sakte hai....
kisi se bhi closeness badhane ka sabse saral upaay hai SPARSH !!!!


kisi bachhe ki galtiyo pe.....us rote hue ko bolker samjhaker...baate sikhane ya chup karane se kahi jyada behtar hai....
use pyar se gale lagao....use pyar bhara physically ahsaas do...
uske sir par hath rakho...use sahlaao....
fir dekho...chahe kitna hi ziddi bacccha ho...vo chup ho jaega....aur aap uski nazar me pyare ban jaoge.......ye hai SPARSH !!!!!


jaanvar !!!!!
vo to koi bhasha nahi samjhte ......sirf ek hi bhasha samjhte hai ....
vo hai....SPARSH !!!!! ki bhasha.... pyar ki bhasha !!!!!!!
paltu jaanvaro ko pyar se sahlaaoge to ...vo kabhi bhi tumhe kisi prakaar ka nuksaan nahi pahunchaega...
bina kahe pyar jatana hai SPARSH !!!!!

kisi bhi baat ki asli feelings ko SPARSH !!!!! dwara behtar tarike se jana ja sakta hai ....

teacher ko hi le......le....
teacher baccho ko kitna bhi chillaye .....generally baccho ko ahsaas nahi hota jo vo kahna chahta hai...
generally baccho ko apni galtiyo ka ahssas nahi hota...
but
teacher ki maar....dande se maar ....padne k baad hi generally baccho ko samjh me aata hai ki....unki galti kis level ki thi...aur galat kyun nahi kerna chahiye..
teacher dwara copy pe correct dena alag baat hai....but student ko paas bulake uski pith thpthapakr shabashi dene ka alg importance hai....
feelings bahut jaldi ...& aasani se feel karata hai SPARSH !!!!!

koi aadmi ek baar kisi ki baato me aaker galat matlab samajh skta hai.....
ya jhooti baato ko sach maanker.....galti kr sakta hai ....
lekin log kahte hai ki ......aadmi se gale lagte hi samajh me aa jata hai ki vo aapse kya chahta hai .......
sach-jhooth parkhne ka jariya hai SPARSH !!!!!

duniya ka sabse bada example...
relation between MAN & WOMAN.....
man & woman ek dusre se behadd pyar kerte hai......khoob pyari pyari baate bhi kerte hai...
lekin unke bich ka pyar tab tak PEAK pr nahi pahunchta jab tak vo ek-dusre ke physical contact me na aaye....
ek-dusre se gale milna......
ghanto ek-dusre ka hath...apne hatho me thame rakhna.....
etc...
etc...
in sab chijo se hi to pyar me 1 vishvas ....1 taakat ....aati hai....
aisa kaha jata hai ki ...
jab ....man & woman....ek dusre me completelty physically kho jaate hai.....
tab unke bich pyar sabse highest level pe hota hai...( obviously uske baad bana rahna ya nahi rahna ....kai aur chijo pe depend bhi kerta hai but fir bhi )
kisi bhi tarah ke sparsh se ek-dusre ke bich pyar kai guna pyar badh jata hai ...


alag alag dharmo me alag alag tarah se sparsh karvaya jata hai shadi ke douran...sirf pyar badhane ke liye....
hamare yaha .....dulha-dulhan ke hath milvaye jate hai....and iske dwara relation banvaya jata hai ....
christan's me weddding me kiss krva ke sweet relation banaya jata hai...

finally my main point is that.....
har relation ke liye....1 alag ...1 unique SPARSH !!!!! hota hai....
use dhundhe .....!!!!!!
aur bina kisi jhijhak ke samne vale ko vo SPARSH de de......

mai maanta hu....ki accha bolna ...kisi ki taarif krna jyada jaruri hai acche relation ke liye.....
but agr hum kisi frnd, kisi rishtedaar ko PROPER physical SPARSH !!!!! de to us bande se humara relation normal relation se jyada behtar ban sakta hai.........
but make sure that saamne vale ko aapke SPARSH se koi problem na ho !!!!